YOU (South Africa)

Finding love when you least expect it

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Ten years ago I decided to stop dating and to focus on my studies. Then when I started working I felt the need to start dating again.

But I remained single, lonely and searching for a year. Then one day I received a call from a stranger. It was clear that the man had called the wrong number. I said, “Wrong number,” and hung up.

But for some reason his voice repeated itself in my mind the whole day and haunted me in my sleep that night.

Fortunatel­y he called the next morning to tell me he liked my voice and would like us to meet.

“Blind date? Not my style,” I snapped even though I wanted to meet him.

Neverthele­ss we started to text each other and eventually agreed to meet at a shopping complex.

A few months later we started dating. Two years later we had a baby boy.

After a few years, I started to wonder why my partner hadn’t proposed. But I remained calm because we were still happy together.

In May I received a call from my partner’s phone but a strange man greeted me. He asked me to come to a restaurant in a shopping complex quickly because my partner had passed out.

I got there as soon as I could, only to meet my man holding a diamond ring in his hand. He went down on one knee, family and friends by his side.

I was reduced to tears when I recall how the wrong call had brought us together and the way my partner used a phone call to surprise me again. It was the best 10th anniversar­y ever. SO IN LOVE, EMAIL

SI recently remarried after a 15 years of widowhood. I wasn’t really of a mind to get married again, but when I met my present husband I realised no man or woman is an island, and took the plunge.

I want to share the message that if you’re lucky enough to meet a kind, caring, considerat­e individual as I did, there’s so much more to life. So much more sharing and caring than there is in a single life. NEWLY MARRIED, EMAIL

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