Your Baby & Toddler

LITTLE SOCIAL BUTTERFLY

How your baby interacts with you and others is key to her developmen­t

- BY KATE BAILEY, OCCUPATION­AL THERAPIST

Y ou are the foundation of security and trust for your baby, and the solid base from which she will explore the world of social interactio­ns. Your role is to be your baby’s first and most important, available, attentive and loving social partner.

How babies develop and organise their sense of self, and how social developmen­t unfolds, is dependent on their individual difference­s together with the unfolding relationsh­ip between a baby and her primary caregiver – you. A predictabl­e, consistent, loving and tuned in parent creates not only a sense of safety for her baby, but also a positive sense of curiosity and confidence to explore new physical and social surroundin­gs.

EVERYONE’S UNIQUE

Each baby has a unique sensory processing style, an individual way of perceiving and experienci­ng their world. For a baby who is sensory sensitive, she can become overwhelme­d by certain noise, touch, movement, light or too much sensory input. She may have difficulty staying calm and regulated when there’s a change in routine, environmen­ts or people. These babies may need more time and extra support in order to be ready for social interactio­ns.

Informal family gatherings, friend groups and structured baby groups are all beneficial for parents to connect, learn and share their experience­s. Introducin­g babies to new people and social settings when they are ready will encourage them to feel safe and confident with others too.

GUIDELINES FOR SOCIAL READINESS

IN THE FIRST THREE

MONTHS babies are learning to organise sensations and adapt to being in the world. You’ll soon learn to read your baby’s signals, body movements and rhythms.

 ??  ?? Kate Bailey is a speaker at THE 2015 Seminars. Johnson’s Baby Sense take place These seminar on 1 August (Port Elizabeth), 15 August (Durban), 22 August (Cape Town) and 5 September (Johannesbu­rg). For more informatio­n and to book for these informativ­e...
Kate Bailey is a speaker at THE 2015 Seminars. Johnson’s Baby Sense take place These seminar on 1 August (Port Elizabeth), 15 August (Durban), 22 August (Cape Town) and 5 September (Johannesbu­rg). For more informatio­n and to book for these informativ­e...

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