I’M READY TO BE A MOM AGAIN

On the 29th August 2015 my journey of being a parent started after finding out we finally conceived after one year of trying. As a first time mommy I was determined to do my best. While my baby girl was growing in my tummy I sang, prayed and spoke to her, but you know these little rascals; when they become quiet you know they’re up to something! And of course mommy’s instincts are always right – at just 25 weeks into the pregnancy on 14 February 2016, our baby girl Isabella Valerie Kissoon was born at 780g. The practice session was over and our journey of really being parents had begun. We spent three months in a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU).

Having the title parent was very difficult because every time I walked to the NICU doors I had to smile, be strong, close the door to my emotions and be the strength, prayer warrior and mother that my baby needed. I had to be my baby’s comfort, strength, teacher and more. This first part of our parenting journey taught me that when you’re a parent you embrace the moment no matter what obstacles, think positive and allow your circumstances to make you stronger. On 9 May 2016 our baby girl went to heaven. She suffered too much, had too many tubes, blood transfusions and way too much medication. Finally I had my first and last chance to carry my baby girl before she passed in my husband’s arms. Yes, being a parent was the most difficult experience of my life but one that enriched me in so many ways. Now I am 28 weeks pregnant with my second baby girl and I am ready to get this parenting thing on – no matter what lies ahead on this path!

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