‘Please give me another chance’ - Shramantha

I write this letter to every family and individual who is affected by the recent news of my release from prison and consider it unfair.

This has caused immeasurable pain to all of you and everyone in my family

Requests society to judge him for what he is today and what he is attempting to do with his life.

There has only been sadness, loss and grief throughout this 15 years for everyone. I have tried many times to contact you and express my heart

In an open letter, Shramantha Jude Jayamaha, who was convicted over the Royal Park murder and released on a presidential pardon recently, requested the society to give him another chance.

This is my story.

I am the product of a broken home as my parents are divorced. I grew up lonely, hurting, insecure and never understood what it’s like to belong to a close knit family. By the time I was 16, I had grown into a disgruntled youth with little control over how I behaved in society.

Today, I stand as a 34 year old, who has spent the best years of my youth in prison, enclosed in a 6 x 8 ft room with access to only 30 minutes of sunlight every day. It was the darkest period of my life, locked up for over 12 hours of each day, with a bucket as a latrine, which also served as my chair. I slept on the floor and the pillow I lay my head on was also my desk. If there was a hell on earth; I experienced it in the last 14+ years. I’m out now, but in a world that I hardly know or recognize. And all I see is your anger and hate directed at me - not that I don’t deserve it, but please understand that I am not the same 19 year old who was imprisoned.

TO THE JOHNSON FAMILY:

I don’t have adequate words to express my grief towards what has come upon the Johnson family. I want you to know that I never intended to harm anyone. I don’t have the words to take away the pain. This is what has played on my mind; every day for the last 14 years.

Sadly, I know that nothing I can ever say or do; will make this go away and make things right for you, although I so wish I could. You knew me as a child, I have been in and out of your house and you have always been so gracious and kind to me. I’m so ashamed for what has happened. This has caused immeasurable pain to all of you and everyone in my family. There has only been sadness, loss and grief throughout this 15 years for everyone.

I ask for your understanding, because that is the kind of country we live in - where there is hope for even the worst criminal and mercy and forgiveness is a way of life. Please give me another chance

If you don’t believe anything else, at least believe that the pardon that was given to me, was not a result of any coercion or influence, but purely through process and as I pointed out earlier

I have tried many times to contact you and express my heart; but I was never successful. I can’t replace Yvonne, and even if you don’t believe me now, I will keep on trying to make amends.

TO SOCIETY:

I understand the anger you feel. But please judge me for what I am today and what I am attempting to do with my life. I ask for your forgiveness, as I am a changed man - I have had days and years to do nothing but look at myself and think of everything I could have done different.

Sadly, I know that nothing I can ever say or do; will make this go away and make things right for you, although I so wish I could

I met Ven. Rathana Thera for the first time, when I was at a particularly low point in my life – around five years ago. He was meeting prisoners to give us meditation advice, and in a very long time, someone looked at me with kindness. It was he who gave me the desire to believe in life again and even motivated me to pick up my studies again.

I promise you that I did not receive special privileges while doing any of this

I did a distance education BSC Economics Degree from the University of London/ London School of Economics against innumerable odds. Please understand I had no access to a computer, online research, desk, table, or even a chair or lighting. I sat on my toilet bucket and used my pillow as a desk. Every tutorial or assignment was hand written and posted – I did this to prove to myself and everyone else that I was a changed man. I kept at it and even went on to do a Masters of Business from the Open University; a first for any prisoner in Sri Lanka.

I promise you that I did not receive special privileges while doing any of this. But doing it all despite the odds helped me and gave some direction to the mess I had made in my life. For me it was a turning point, and now plan to complete my Phd on Development Economics, so that one day, I can give back by working for the development of my country; that is if I am given the opportunity.

As for my release from prison, I must place on record that it was not an arbitrary decision by the President as currently being portrayed. It was a process that began three years ago, with continual sequences of reviews and approvals.

It was the darkest period of my life, locked up for over 12 hours of each day, with a bucket as a latrine, which also served as my chair

I met Ven. Rathana Thera for the first time, when I was at a particularly low point in my life – around five years ago