You made ordinary moments special

It’s been three months since you left an empty chair, pin-drop silence at home, and the biggest vacuum in our hearts. The hugs and the happiness you brought to our home warmed our hearts. The fun times and the laughter we shared during the years will never return. You were the heart and soul of our family and your bright smile which put us at ease, we miss every single day.

When we were asked what we would be when we grew up when it came to your turn you said you “want to be a lawyer like Dad”. Naomi girl, you were more than a lawyer; when we listened to countless stories from those fortunate enough to have crossed your path and how you touched lives in your own simple and thoughtful way. You transformed ordinary moments into extraordinary memories which we continue to hold close to our hearts.

As your siblings, we never took our eyes off you during your journey with us. Similarly, you too were protective of your nieces and nephews, especially in the absence of their parents. During party time while the parents were enjoying themselves, it was you who hung around them trying to instill right from wrong. When they grew up, you became their adored Aunt. When you were taken on your daily drives and occasionally saw a little child, your warm heart would make sure that we stopped the vehicle so that you could exchange pleasantries; such was your true love towards little children irrespective of the socio-economic background they came from.

Naomi girl, although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. When we realise you are free from all that you were deprived of, we try to move forward keeping you with us in everything we do. We hope you can see how precious your memory will always be to us Chuti girl and now it’s your time to rest gently with ease, until we meet again, on that beautiful shore and sing together your favourite hymns.

We thank God for the life of Naomi who epitomised love, empathy, patience, and a life well lived.

Vinodini Jayawardena