Friday

’TIS NOT THE SAME

- Mrinal Shekar, Editor Reach me at mshekar@gulfnews.com

Politics is something I truly do not understand, so don’t ask me how far is far right or whether my socialist leanings reflect the time when I am not hibernatin­g. I’d like to believe politics is a personal choice and I’m nobody to judge. Whatever floats your boat.

While on the subject, let me clarify that I also do not understand assimilati­on of cultures in the name of the larger good. Homogeneit­y, I believe, is as destructiv­e as conflict. Its corrosive nature turns everything that it comes into contact with into one vanilla pool – insipid. Just like conflict, it destroys unique, intriguing, fascinatin­g subtext.

So what I do understand, or I believe I do, is selfhood. It is not a defined manifesto or a hardline mandate but a testimony of who we are. Simple. We are individual­s, each a sum total of our emotions, history, values and beliefs. And that is the fact we all need to embrace, not just about ourselves but about those around us and everybody out there.

That, I believe, is also the first step towards celebratin­g diversity – we are different, no one’s better or worse, just different, each a link in the chain of happy coexistenc­e, each accepting of each other’s merits, each trusting the other despite the difference­s.

It is this happy coexistenc­e and trust that is the hero of our story ‘More than just jewellery’ on page 26. While the article highlights exquisite gold jewellery that is almost 90 years old and its refined craftsmans­hip, it is the story of its people and its purpose that leaves me stupefied.

For a bride to entrust her jewellery to a

Homogeneit­y, I believe, is as destructiv­e as conflict. It turns everything that it comes into contact with into one vanilla pool – insipid

stranger for no personal gain, time and again, does not just speak of her massively generous heart but of her trust in the goodness of others. And then for her family to be the torchbeare­rs of that generosity and carry on the tradition, is equally awe-inspiring.

Sceptics among us would wonder at the family’s naivety, but to me this tradition is not just an act of kindness but a validation that while we all might be the different colours of a rainbow, we come together to form the pure white light called faith in humanity.

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