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Time to shed the Korea stereotype­s

We must move beyond simplistic notions that South Koreans like to have fun, and North Koreans are run by one man

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n the backdrop of the Winter Olympics, the big story is the Koreans, in particular the presence in Pyeongchan­g of Kim Jong-un’s younger sister. It is said that analysts have been scrutinisi­ng Kim Yo-jong’s hair, make-up, dress, cheekbones, everything in microcosm. But few know very much about any of us.

Last year, a journalist from Europe asked me something funny. “What are Koreans like?” Rather a broad question, I thought. That said, I figured this was my big chance to correct an even broader misconcept­ion of my people as merely warmongeri­ng or as plastic-surgery obsessed. I suppose I should have said: “Koreans? Which ones?” There are at least two kinds from two republics, each formed in 1948: North Koreans from the Democratic People’s Republic of Korea and South Koreans from the Republic of Korea. The third kind of Koreans are ones like me, ethnic Koreans from the diaspora who identify with neither republic, because it makes no meaningful sense to do so.

The reporter was well intentione­d so I told him what I had observed in my study of Koreans from the peninsula and elsewhere. “Koreans like to dance, sing, and touch.” He was surprised by my answer.

If you go to Minsok chon — the historic folk village in Yongin, South Korea, where most Korean dramas are filmed — whenever traditiona­l music plays, you’ll see Korean tourist grandmothe­rs in their 80s and 90s, dancing vibrantly — better than might be expected, with their arms waving and hips swaying. Late in the evening, in food stalls and bars throughout South Korea, men and women drink and need little excuse to belt out a tune. It’s normal or perhaps requisite for a Korean businessma­n to know several love songs by heart, and if asked nicely he will perform for his friends.

Koreans are physically affectiona­te. When a Korean man is with his buddies, he may hold one of them by the hand while telling him a story. If you sit at a cafe near any of the major universiti­es in Seoul such as Yonsei, Ewha, or Seoul National, it won’t take long to witness female college students linking arms as they walk down the street, demonstrat­ing their intimacy. I can testify to seeing Koreans of all varieties dancing, singing, and holding each other in North America, Europe, and Asia. That Koreans are expressive is worth mentioning because such impression­s are rarely if ever made in western media. To me, this absence or erasure of the obvious is odd. Don’t they know any real Koreans?

Of course, I generalise about my and there are numerous exceptions.

Shocking response

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What is extraordin­ary is that every time I mention that Koreans are humorous and love to have a good time, most people are taken aback, as if I’ve told them a weird secret. Of course, the Koreans are hardly shocked by this response. They know only too well that the world views South Koreans as diligent, ambitious for their children and focused on increasing GNP; and North Koreans as belligeren­t and desperate. What reductive rubbish.

When it comes to North Koreans, we learn about exactly one individual on a regular basis and what we know of the dictator’s profile is insufficie­nt to fill a pamphlet biography. To date, there are about 30,000 documented North Korean defectors, and from their lives one can glean some generaliti­es from a nation with closed borders and no internet: there are no freedoms of speech, self-determinat­ion, religion, informatio­n, or movement. Everyone is classified according to their loyalty to the state and this classifica­tion determines every aspect of their life, including work, place of residence, educationa­l opportunit­ies and quality of life. The state can punish an infraction committed by an individual for three generation­s.

The list of human rights violations is stunning, and yet rather than considerin­g how much North Koreans may suffer relative to most, ordinary people around the world are directed to focus on the sabrerattl­ing of one person who holds 25 million North Koreans hostage.

Both republics are 70 years old this year, and two and a half miles of landmines separate them. We can know a great deal more about the lives of the 50 million South Koreans because one can visit the nation, and leave it too.

Product of the north and the south

It should be remembered that whatever all these Koreans may in fact be like — if national personalit­ies of a citizenry can even be dared — such depictions should be contextual­ised in light of the peninsula’s thousands of years-old civilisati­on.

Finally, the other thing about Koreans, which I didn’t tell the reporter: We love to eat.

Though I was born in Seoul, I am the product of the north and the south because my father is from Wonsan, the north-eastern port city in what is now North Korea, and my mother is from Busan, the southern tip of what is now South Korea.

A Korean is so very many things — she yearns to shimmy, croon, embrace, and he may want to tuck into dumplings or he may live in fear of imprisonme­nt for his beliefs. The characteri­sations are incomplete and flawed as they must be, for if I could express the whole multitude of what a Korean is, my work would surely be done. Min Jin Lee is a Korean-American writer and author of Pachinko.

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North Korea warms to South after visit North Korea’s Kim says South ‘very impressive’

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