Ashley has advice for assault survivors
Actress says her life was saved when she focussed on joy and not trauma
Actress Ashley Judd, one of the first women to accuse Harvey Weinstein of misconduct, read aloud a personal letter she’d written to sexual assault survivors Saturday, telling them that healing is not only possible, “it’s our birthright.”
Judd’s remarks, in which she referenced her own journey to recovery after experiencing sexual abuse in her youth, provided an emotional finale to a daylong event hosted by the Tribeca Film Festival and the Time’s Up movement fighting sexual harassment and promoting equality in the workplace. Along with Judd, panellists and presenters included #MeToo founder Tarana Burke, and actresses Lupita Nyong’o, Mira Sorvino, Julianne Moore, Sienna Miller and Mariska Hargitay, alongside lawyers, labour organisers and activists.
“We can heal,” Judd began. “That has been my experience.”
She spoke of a time when she was sexually assaulted in high school, a crime she said she doesn’t remember but was reported to police. “I was wearing a green and gold cheerleader’s uniform, my mother tells me. It was in a local store and I have no memory of that crime.”
“Healing is our birthright,” Judd said. “It was not our birthright to be sexually harassed or assaulted or raped ... [but] it is our birthright to know in our bones that it wasn’t our fault. We humans hurt each other and sometimes we hurt ourselves, but we can make decisions and take actions that free us.”
Judd later sat down for a conversation with Burke, who spoke of her own journey, saying: “The thing that saved my life was when I figured out how to lean into joy, and not trauma.”
In an earlier panel, Burke was asked what the next steps are for women.
“What has to happen is we channel anger into the work,” Burke said. She urged everyone in the audience to realise they have a role to play. “Everyone has a lane, everyone has something to contribute,” she said, adding that survivors need to be regarded not as victims, but as a powerful force. “I think of us as a power base,” she said. “As a constituency.”
A FOCUS ON ALL WOMEN
The focus of the Time’s Up event was both national and global, including a speech by United Nations official Phumzile Miambo-Ngcuka, executive director of UN Women, on gender inequality around the world.
And despite its location at a glamorous film festival populated by movie stars, there was a strong emphasis on women who are neither famous nor wealthy — on hotel workers, restaurant workers, farm workers and domestic workers. One of the most passionate presentations came from Saru Jayaraman, of Restaurant Opportunities Centers United, who drew a standing ovation as she called for a level wage for female restaurant workers dependent on tips — often at the cost of sexual harassment — to feed their families.