Morals versus manners

Both morals and manners are integral parts of an individual’s life (“Morals or manners first?”, Gulf News, July 26). However, in my opinion there is no set definition for this. Each person has a different perception and notion about them. It is not like a ‘one-size-fits-all’ quality. Both manners and morals are, to a large extent, a matter of accepted conventions in society.

Many times, morals become a personal preference from an individual’s perspective, that are typically rooted in the judgement of right or wrong, good or bad, evil or virtuous. Manners can be prevailing customs, ways of living and habits of people.

They are rule-based, prescribed behaviour of people that have basis in social and cultural rules and norms. Both manners and morals are vital. Both bring niceties, humility, humaneness, kindness and compassion in our lives. Bereft of these values make life miserable. While being kind, polite, good and helpful are universally recognised moral qualities, manners make a man. Hence both the qualities need to be valued and followed diligently.

From Ms Jayashree Kulkarni India

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