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Be here now to calm the ‘monkey mind’

- DiAnA rAAb —Psychology Today Diana Raab is an author

According to Buddhist principles, the “monkey mind” is a term that refers to being unsettled, restless, or confused. Writer and Buddhist Natalie Goldberg suggests that the monkey mind is the inner critic. It’s the part of your brain most connected to the ego, which contends that you can’t do anything right. It’s also the part of you that stifles creativity and prevents you from moving forward with your passions. The monkey mind insists on being heard, and sometimes it takes a lot of self-control to shut it down. It is also the part of your brain that becomes easily distracted, so if you want to get anything done in life, your challenge will be to shut down the monkey mind.

The first step in doing so is to become grounded and calm the mind—that is, remember to be in the here and now. Being present in this way is called mindfulnes­s. It is an essential state for inspiring the best writing because it taps into the messages of your heart and soul. Being mindful encompasse­s awareness, and interconne­ctedness between your inner and outer worlds. If you are more awake and alert, you can more easily receive messages from within as well as from the universe.

Natalie Goldberg in her book, The True Secret of Writing reminds us of the importance of mindfulnes­s as we move about our days, whether we’re writing, doing errands, or engaging in interperso­nal relationsh­ips. Some of the characteri­stics of mindfulnes­s also include being nonjudgmen­tal, patient, accepting, trusting, and letting go.

When considerin­g how to quiet your mind, try to sit still for a minute and think about what calms you. Contemplat­e

Even though the mind is a wonderful thing, it can sometimes get in the way of creativity

how you can incorporat­e these activities into your daily life. Even just a few minutes of a walking, meditation or mindful breathing can bring you into the present moment. In addition to incorporat­ing mindfulnes­s into your day — even when standing in line at the bank — it’s wise to practise mindfulnes­s before sitting down to write. My day always begins with a meditation, sometimes even before I have my coffee. And then, sometimes I do a shorter meditation later in the afternoon to give me a boost of energy.

Even though the mind is a wonderful thing, it can sometimes get in the way of creativity, mainly because the voice in our head can get in the way of what our heart wants to say. Sometimes this voice turns to a dark side and can lead to feelings of fear, guilt, anger, sadness, envy, and resentment, instead of a sense of lightness of being. This voice might seem like a nagging parent or spouse.

The ego has the ability to create false thoughts, which is the inner chatter we hear most often. In fact, it is the voice in our heads that we sometimes tell to “shut up.” Otherwise, we can become overwhelme­d by these thoughts and lose touch with reality. This is one reason why, during meditation, it’s a good idea to let thoughts come and go, rather than becoming obsessed by them or focusing on any one in particular.

Those who live in the present moment often come across as being more grounded. The more we bring our focus into the present moment, the more we experience the bliss and joy of that moment and see what our true essence is. In this way, we can release the demons that come along with the monkey mind.

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