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Staying off Twitter has been liberating

- AzAdeh AAlAi —Psychology Today Azadeh Aalai is an assistant professor of Psychology at Queensboro­ugh Community College in New York

Ihave written extensivel­y about both the perils of social media as well as more generally about what recent empirical research is uncovering regarding how our psychology is being shaped in an increasing­ly technology-saturated culture. Every other semester I teach graduate students on this topic, and I find myself reflecting during those semesters more explicitly about my own relationsh­ip with social media.

The time spent on our digital gadgets isn’t just about quantity, it is also about quality of our lifestyles. For instance, time spent scrolling through our phones itself may not be a problem until we consider what we are not doing because we are scrolling through our phones. Over the weekend, I was compelled to confront my own incessant checking of Twitter when my puppy became increasing­ly agitated every time my smartphone posed as a barrier between us. It got me thinking, maybe it is that time of year for me to take a break from social media—which for me is specifical­ly Twitter, as this is the platform I am currently on and use most frequently.

And so, I decided to delete the Twitter app from my smartphone, and stay off of the platform for at least a week. This decision was followed by promptly informing a close loved one in my life so that I would be held accountabl­e all week for the decision. I wondered as the start of the work week approached whether I would be more productive, whether I would feel the pangs of not having the most up to date informatio­n (especially while commuting on NYC transit), or whether the impact would be negligible. I can report that thus far, at least one companion in my life appears to be better off with my decision: My dog.

How apt that when I was able to allocate the time to reading the print copy of

The New York Times today — a practice that I don’t always find ‘time’ for every day, despite being a subscriber — that I was exposed to a compelling article by Renkl reflecting on the importance of taking the time and inviting enough stillness during our day-to-day lives to observe what she referred to as ‘ordinary miracles’. One particular­ly compelling aspect of this piece reflects: “Paying attention to what is happening in Washington is so reality altering that it should be regulated as a Schedule IV drug. I sometimes wonder how much longer I can continue to follow the national news and not descend into a kind of despair that might as well be called madness.”

This excerpt in particular resonated with me as I primarily use the platform to stay up to date on political news and what is happening in the world. The constant tethering to the platform, however, can provoke anxiety, particular­ly given the state of the political discourse in our culture right now. Renkl goes on to reflect on how it is important to not only ‘give up’ those things we are exposed to that aren’t serving us, but to also invite things into our lives that are positive. She writes eloquently about connecting with nature and seeking out what she refers to as everyday miracles by looking closer at the world around us.

Warzel reflected in a different opinion piece that despite a popular lament that Twitter ‘isn’t real life’ such a notion obscures the very real effects engaging with the platform can have for users. In fact, one could argue that social media platforms are so ubiquitous in our day to day lives that the distinctio­n between ‘virtual’ and ‘face-to-face’ is not only blurred, but potentiall­y even obsolete. He also shares a startling statistic that “most users rarely tweet, but the most prolific 10 per cent create 80 per cent of tweets from adult US users.” Such a finding demonstrat­es that despite the idea of social media platforms promoting norms of egalitaria­nism, there are specific users that garner greater attention and develop disproport­ionate influence regarding what narratives become prominent in online spaces.

While there are benefits that come from having access to such a plethora of informatio­n in real time, there is also a risk of developing informatio­n overload and mental fatigue, particular­ly when the political discourse has become so divisive. Moderation is important, but, unfortunat­ely, these platforms are oftentimes designed specifical­ly to promote more extreme reactions. Thus, it isn’t a bad idea to counter the often invasive digital landscape by occasional­ly opting out of participat­ing in it every day.

While this decision reflects a particular type of privilege, most of us do not depend on Twitter for our day-to-day survival or even to be effective as profession­als — in fact, disconnect­ing occasional­ly could boost our ability to focus and be productive at work.

How my week without Twitter will play out remains to be seen, as it has only just begun. There are still ways to access the news, as I have done this evening by reading my print edition of the Times. I am curious to observe how it will feel when the habitual scrolling through Twitter on my phone is confronted by the decision to not access it this week.

It isn’t a bad idea to counter the often invasive digital landscape by occasional­ly opting out of participat­ing in it every day.

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