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So much more to do before we party

JULIET SHORT, operations and developmen­t manager at Connex Community Support, reflects on what we’ve achieved and learned during the pandemic – and what might follow

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IT’S not time to party yet. Another busy fortnight and with the transition into Tier 3 coronaviru­s restrictio­ns (at least for now), local charities in common with businesses are still finding it hard to navigate this changing terrain and to know how best to operate.

In common with other businesses, we have staff who furloughed and flexi-furloughed and struggling to make ends meet. We too have staff, clients (and volunteers) who would like a little bit of normality.

However, unlike many businesses, charities are exempt from the gatherings limit currently defined in Tier 3. Yet, in a climate where chickens are now going into their own ‘lockdown’ to slow down the transmissi­on of avian flu, is this an appropriat­e moment to provide face-to-face support for groups or individual­s?

If cafes and pubs aren’t open, should groups be openly encouraged to mingle and bring their own takeaway drinks or flasks, or even pizza as mooted at one local forum?

While the voluntary sector prides itself on collaborat­ion, it is safe to say there is some dissension with regards to what represents exemplary practice.

At Connex, we have been fortunate that none of our staff and few of our volunteers and clients have had Covid-19. We want to keep it this way.

In practice, stakeholde­rs hold the key to the way in which services operate. For example, Macmillan fund Readycall (our befriendin­g project) and they have deemed that it is not yet the moment to resume face-to-face contact. Other services with different stakeholde­rs operate differentl­y. Our volunteer transport service ceased in the spring but has played an increasing­ly important role in getting people to urgent medical appointmen­ts once hospitals recommence­d routine screening and operations.

It is fair to say we can’t wait to do more and move towards a more connected way of life. The vaccinatio­ns of people in care homes can’t come soon enough. We have felt for everyone whose loved ones are in care homes.

To learn that partners have been separated for months after decades of married life has been heart-rending. It’s been dispiritin­g not being able to provide transport to people wanting to visit loved ones.

The risk-benefit analysis of these situations has been intolerabl­e for all parties. These first steps in the vaccinatio­n programme are crucial and we are hopeful they will provide a guiding light out of the pandemic tunnel.

For all the heartache, we have learnt and grown during the pandemic: it has given us pause for reflection.

It has given us opportunit­ies to collaborat­e with new partners and opportunit­ies to explore new ways to make an emotional impact from a distance.

We have loved sharing poetry; mindfulnes­s colouring; ‘snail-mail’ letters and plant care.

We have embraced finding new ways of reminding people that they matter and look forward to extending and adapting our mindful approach.

In the words of Jaclyn: “Now is a good time to think about the little things that together make a big difference.

“The more we can all focus on good things the better for our mental health and wellbeing, so a big ‘Thank You’ for thoughtful­ly addressing this issue in a practical way.”

We are talking to care homes about how we might facilitate additional support so care homes are more integrated into our communitie­s.

We are working on an exciting new youth project and working closely with local partners to help with the provision of joined-up health and social care.

While our resilience will continue to be tested, we can all continue to quietly celebrate the awesome volunteers who selflessly devote their time to local charities, and thank the communitie­s that fundraise. Without all these kindnesses, life would be a whole lot bleaker for us all. Thank you.

The Community Resilience Unit remains open for referrals on 01629 535901. Our number for enquiries is 01335 348600.

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Older people in care homes have been separated from loved ones

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