Writer, performer
and Beyoncé super- fan Willy
Hudson — whose acclaimed coming- of- age theatre show
Bottom is being developed for TV – gives us his guide to putting in an un- Bey- lievable performance in the bedroom. Well, what are you waiting for? Get in
Formation!
@ willyhudson007
FLAWLESS? Don’t worry if it’s shite or you have no idea what you are doing. No need to pull your best
Blue Steel pose — it isn’t porn. Sex is funny, people smell weird, and it has a beginning, middle and end.
AVOID BEING DRUNK IN LOVE. Don’t only have sex when you’re smashed. It’s fun for a while, until you can’t remember what happened. Good sex isn’t at the bottom of 10 pints…
PARTY! Top, bottom, vers, side? Who cares… why put yourself or others in a box? Any prejudice that makes you look at someone’s shoes and go ‘ oh, they’re definitely a bottom’ is rooted in ancient heterosexual gender norms. People aren’t positions. It’s a movable FEAST.
LISTEN! Be vocal, say what you want, what you like, don’t like and what you’re thinking.
WAIT FOR THE GREEN LIGHT.
Give and get consent.
UNLEASH YOUR INNER
NAUGHTY GIRL. Do whatever makes you feel good.
DON’T HURT YOURSELF! Plenty. Of. Lube.
ALWAYS LOVE ON TOP. Put yourself first. Love yourself and your body before you invite someone inside.
HOLD UP EXCUSE ME, LAYDEH! PrEP? condoms? Play safe, laydeez.