ALAM WERNIK
Porn star turned Insta poster boy Alam Wernik is helping us through lockdown with mouthwatering pics from his NYC pad. He talks to Attitude about exploring his sexuality and how OnlyFans changed his life
Get a load of the New York- based porn star and OnlyFans sensation
Abreak- out social media star from the adult entertainment world, Alam Wernik enjoys a colossal following of a million followers on Instagram and 200,000 on Twitter, as well as a thriving OnlyFans presence on which he has shared some 880 posts, charging fans $ 15 per month for the pleasure of viewing them.
Currently residing in New York City, after a short time spent in Los Angeles, the impressive views of the sprawling US metropolis from Alam’s Manhattan apartment — complete with a rather excessively spacious balcony — are essentially his office window on the world. As ‘ working from home’ goes, Alam’s got the technique down perfectly.
It’s a far cry from his humble upbringing in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, where he grew up in a huge family surrounded by cousins, uncles and aunties, before moving to Argentina to study medicine. Yes, beauty, brains and a bountiful butt in one impressive package make him a worthy cover star for Attitude’s Sex & Sexuality issue. >
“I had a vision of what a sexy and attractive body should look like, but it took years to achieve my current shape”
“It’s such an amazing thing to know that people follow you for who you are, and I am grateful for that”
When did you realise you were different from other boys?
I used to have my eyes on this girl for a while in middle school, but I wasn’t sure if I liked her or what she was. Also, I liked boys and I knew it was very, very different from the way I used to like that girl. It was very frustrating, because at that point I didn’t have anyone to talk to about it, and actually I don’t think I would have known what to say. I am sure that a lot of people can relate to my situation. I was a fish out of the aquarium!
How old were you?
I was around 10 years old. I began my own research online and was able to watch some straight porn, and I loved every part of the video. Well, the male part, and how perfect they were, and that’s when I realised that I was gay. I felt I had been on pause mode not knowing who I was.
Who was the first person you came out to?
I was 14 years old and it was my older brother’s friend. He used to pick us up from high school, and we texted for a couple of weeks. Then we met for a couple of cocktails and we both liked the way the conversation was going. We met again and again. A couple of weeks before my 15th birthday, we had sex in his car.
When did you come out to your parents?
I asked my sister to talk to my mother about it, but I think she always knew. Like any other parent that doesn’t know the situation, and doesn’t know how to react, she was quiet and didn’t talk to us for about three days. Now she is my biggest supporter and loves me and all my friends.
So you’re close to her.
Oh, yes! Every first and last message of the day goes to my mum. I have a group message for video- calling my family. Usually we do that at weekends.
What did your mother say when you told your family you were on OnlyFans?
Honestly, my mother didn’t know anything about it. We only spoke about this last November. She asked me, “Are you happy? That’s all that matters!”
Did it take a while for you to be comfortable with your body and sexuality?
I had a vision of what a sexy and attractive body looked like, but it took me a couple of years to achieve my current shape and to feel very comfortable with it.
How would you describe yourself?
I am a quiet guy, a family person. I can’t imagine my life without my family and friends.
How would you describe your career and public persona?
It’s such an amazing thing to know that people follow you for you who you are, and I am grateful for that. All the fans gave me this amazing opportunity to share my content. OnlyFans followers have given me the support to build and create other projects in my life.
You have 1m followers on Instagram and 200,000 on Twitter – how do you use social media?
I create content that shows who I am. I do have a Twitter account, but I prefer to use Instagram to share content.
Is it all about driving subscribers to OnlyFans?
There’s a lot of factors that I take into consideration. But it’s just about being
“I watched some straight porn online and loved the male part of the video. That’s when I realised I was gay”
“I used to make homemade videos, but porn was a completely enjoyable, but different experience”
yourself and sharing your lifestyle. It’s really important for people to know who you are when having sex on camera!
When did you discover OnlyFans? How did it transform your life?
I have friends that were in the business already and used OnlyFans as their main source of income who gave me a brief on how to use the platform. I did my own research on what I needed to do to be up and running with my own account. With OnlyFans, the social media doors opened, giving me an opportunity to show what I do in my day- to- day life, such as fitness and travel.
How long do you plan to keep producing OnlyFans content for?
Probably the next two years.
You’ve also done adult movies for Falcon, how is that different?
The porn industry was a beautiful experience. I used to create homemade videos, but the porn industry was a completely enjoyable, but different, experience! Falcon has a great team that helps you get comfortable with being naked and having sex under a lot of lights. They really are a group of amazing people and it was great to work with them.
What are the common judgments people make about you?
I do see some negative messages, but I feel people don’t know who I am and how I live my life to judge me. I don’t get mad at all. Maybe they want to be more like me and enjoy their body. I have people that I follow that I wish I was more like, and what I do is try to learn from them, rather than bad- mouth them or make them feel bad about themselves. Love, love, love.
Are there any negative aspects to being so open about your sexuality?
When I became a porn star this was my biggest question. I have been in the porn industry for two years, and honestly, I only have amazing things to say about the business. I feel like people in 2020 want to be more sexually open.
There have been quite a few porn stars who have passed away from addiction, steroids and other issues. How do you look after your mental health to keep yourself balanced and sane when your job revolves around being perfect on the outside?
I feel grateful for working with the right team. I work out and travel a lot, and I think this keeps me sane.
What makes an enjoyable sexual encounter for you?
I like to show my sexuality with no fear or judgment. I like the feeling of giving and receiving emotions like it is the last time. Because it could well be, right?
There is a stereotype that people in porn aren’t especially smart or clever, but you have been to medical school.
I went to medical school at Buenos Aires university for two years. I stopped when I moved back to the US.
How long do you see yourself doing this, and what’s your plan afterwards?
I am having a lot fun for now, travelling around the world and meeting very interesting people. I am creating my own underwear line, so stay tuned! And maybe in two years’ time, I want to finish medical school.
What would people be most surprised to learn about you?
I am taller than people think, at 6ft 1in.
What is your dream?
I would love to have a family. It is on my bucket list, but for now I am working my way up financially.
“I see negative messages, but I feel people don’t know who I am and how I live my life to judge me. I don’t get mad”