Daughter told she can’t be by her dad’s grave when his body gets exhumed
A grieving daughter has been told she can’t be by her dad’s graveside when his body is exhumed.
Danielle Burns, 31, from Ayr, was left stunned when she found out her dad’s final resting place will become a construction site after she begged council officers to be present during the painstaking works.
Her dad Joseph was buried there in 2019 after he died suddenly, aged 58.
Council bosses have told amilies that they won’t be able to be anywhere near the Ayr Cemetery site when exhumations take place next month.
In the latest heartbreaking update, council chiefs have revealed that gravesides will become a construction site — with graves sealed off.
They added the site will be a no-go zone for mourners due to the machinery being used and will be managed under construction regulations.
Bodies are set to be removed from graves and sent to a facility in Prestwick.
Speaking by her dad’s grave, Danielle told the Post:“I want to be there when they take my dad out and I want to make sure that everything is done properly. I can’t trust the council after everything that has happened here.
“I couldn’t believe their response when I asked, they just shot me down and said‘no you can’t be there, it will be a working site.’
“How can you call a cemetery a working site, that’s where my dad was laid to rest.
“It doesn’t feel like the council really understand what we are going through — the way I was spoken to wasn’t appropriate.”
Danielle is dreading this month when works are set to start with her dad’s birthday, anniversary of his death and Father’s Day.
Danielle’s brother, John Paul Burns, 29, says his family have visions of a“body floating in water”as he hit out the council over their handling of the crisis.
He said:“My sister and I lost my dad very suddenly and unexpectedly — he was only 58.
“Now, we have visions of his body floating in water in whatever stage of decomposition it might be.
“Even when it rains, you get anxiety just thinking of the vault filling up even more. Nobody should have to go through this.”
John Paul has joined mourners in taking a stand against South Ayrshire Council over“failings”.
He added:“We want accountability and a reasonable and efficient solution to this problem.
“The council have continuously failed us from the get go, enough is enough. If they won’t protect the dignity of our dead, then we will.”
A council spokesperson said:“When the works start, the area will be securely fenced off and will not be accessible. The area of works will be managed under the Construction (Design and Management) Regulations 2015.
“The purpose of the regulations is to make sure construction projects are safe to build, use and maintain. The appointed contractor will be responsible for the security of the site.
“The works will entail the use of plant and machinery and for this reason it is not considered safe for members of the public to be present.”
Meanwhile, relatives were set to receive individual letters from new council leader, Martin Dowey, within days which will outline a fresh approach to the authority’s handling of the crisis.
Specialist bereavement counselling will be offered to all families as part of efforts to provide“all support we can in the circumstances”.