How do I make the first move?


I’m very at­tracted to a man at work – but I don’t know how to make the first move! We’ve ex­changed a few glances, he stops to speak to me (usu­ally to wind me up!) and there’s def­i­nitely chem­istry. But we’re both quite shy. Help!

Daisy, Nor­wich

It sounds like there is a spark there. I know it’s scary, but take a deep breath and ap­proach him. If you don’t ask, you don’t get! In this day and age, it’s per­fectly ac­cept­able for a woman to in­vite a man out for a drink or a bite to eat af­ter work. Al­ter­na­tively, if you have tick­ets for the the­atre or a con­cert, why not tell him you have a spare and ask if he’d like to go with you? It’s a more gen­tle ap­proach than, ‘Would you like to go on a date?’ Good luck!

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