Thought for the Week

WE WERE at a most interesting course on helping to understand and relate to people with dementia. This was led by Professor June Andrews, and she was an inspiration.

June helped us to understand the confusion and fear that people with dementia experience.

She invited us to consider ways in which we could help, and understand the fear and confusion that people with dementia experience every single day. June enabled us to catch a glimpse of the mental anguish suffered by so many with this distressing condition.

There was much to absorb and much which gave hope.

One of the things that impressed me most was when June told us about a new venture in dealing with people who turn day into night and who are unsettled and anxious as night falls.

She said that in care homes night staff are encouraged to wear pyjamas or onesies.

This makes the residents feel secure when they are told it is night time and that they should get into their own night wear.

If they are restless in the night, they meet people who are dressed for bed and are gently told, ‘Ssh - people are sleeping’.

Instead of a uniform they meet someone just like themselves, ready for bed. How much gentler and kinder than to engage in confrontation.

We know that the problem of dementia is increasing and has a devastating effect, not only on the person affected, but on the whole family. Care and understanding are available. The Dochas Centre in Lochgilphead offers a listening ear, understanding, and a welcome cup of tea to those who need a friend during the lonely times.

Don’t walk the journey alone.