Stick to the plan
You have a whole heap of resolutions for 2023 but will you stick to them? IMY BRIGHTY-POTTS learns more about the handy hack of habit stacking
STARTING the new year with good intentions is one thing, but most of us know making those resolutions stick is a different story.
Could productivity ‘hacks’ help us stick with our goals? You may have heard of habit stacking, for example – but what does it actually mean?
“We know that the ‘new year, new me’ energy is about to start, and often we look at starting things at this time of year. If you want to embed your habits, then habit stacking is a great methodology,” says Ruth Kudzi, founder of Optimus Coach Academy (optimuscoachacademy.com).
“Habit stacking is a proven formula, which means you attach a new habit to a well-established habit which you already have,” she adds. “When you stack your habit, you’re linking your new habit to one that is already existing, which makes it cognitively easier for you to do, as you’re able to make the link between the two behaviours, effectively wiring your brain to make the connection.”
For instance, imagine an existing habit is brushing your teeth, and you want to introduce a new habit of standing on one leg. If you stack them, your brain will learn to associate brushing your teeth with standing on one leg. “Brushing your teeth is the ‘anchor’ for the new habit,” adds Ruth.
Keen to give it a go? Here’s how habit stacking could help make your New Year’s resolutions stick...
1.Break your resolutions down into something which can be achieved through small everyday actions
“Most resolutions are too daunting and people struggle to even get started. For instance, if your goal is to lose weight, break it down to what you would do differently each day – only buy healthy food, no chocolate; eat a full breakfast; substitute biscuits for fruit at 4pm. Small achievable steps are key,” says Jeremy Campbell, CEO of performance improvement and technology business, Black Isle Group (blackislegroup.com).
This might look like very small, simple actions – but they will help.
“Keep it simple and small, making use of the compound effect. For example, every time I make a cup of tea or coffee, I will have a glass of water.
“You will find yourself reducing your caffeine intake and increasing your water intake,” says Ruth.
2.Tweak your existing routines
Using this approach can make implementing changes easier. “For instance, if you want to exercise more when you arrive home from work – if the first thing you do normally is change out of your work clothes, alter your routine so you put on your exercise clothes at the same time. The old habit needs to be a cue for the new one,” says Jeremy.
3.But take a look at your current habits first
It is worth looking at what you already do in your day, because that is how you will find a solid habit to anchor from.
“What do you do every day – clean your teeth, walk the dog, make a cup of tea when you wake up? When you’re really clear about these, add a new habit tight on the back of these daily routines,” says Jeremy. “For instance, if you want to read more, when you wake up, place a book on your pillow so it’s there when you return to bed in the evening.
“Put your running kit beside your bed so you trip over it the moment you get up to make that cup of tea!”
4.Create really specific goals
If your new habit is too vague, it’s easy to avoid. “Make it obvious and very clear,” says Jeremy.
“So, deciding to read 10 pages every night before I go to sleep is a much better habit than just to read more.”
Setting numbered targets can really help, says Ruth. “For example, I say as soon as I drop my kids at school, I go for a walk in the forest for at least 10 minutes: I often do more, however it’s a really clear instruction to my brain,” she says. “Giving something a number helps your brain, so maybe it’s reading five pages of your book, journaling for five minutes, or doing five push-ups.”
5.Incentivise success
“When you reward the new habit with something positive and pleasurable, you are strengthening your neural pathways with dopamine. If you anticipate a reward, your brain releases dopamine, indicating that this is a behaviour you want to repeat,” explains Ruth. “Consider the reward to be linked to the habit. For example, if you’re journaling, get yourself a lovely pen, or book some time at a writing class. If you’re exercising more, you could book a massage.” Celebrating when habits start to stick will help too.
“When we celebrate, we release powerful emotional chemicals in our brains which make us feel happy. Feeling good about achieving something is the greatest spur we need to carry on and achieve more,” says Jeremy.
“So, celebrate all your small successes, and you are much more likely to change your life in 2023.”
Habit stacking is a proven formula, which means you attach a new habit to a well-established habit which you already have.
Ruth Kudzi, founder of Optimus Coach Academy