MANNERS MATTER IN RELATIONSHIPS

One in three Brits no longer says “please” and “thank you” as often as they should, but Emma insists it’s key to a happy home

This research has T genuinely upset me because it is a stark reminder that good manners have a very real possibility of becoming extinct and that’s what underpins a civil society. I understand that we are busier than ever and this can impact our mood, but at a very basic level, if you are not being mindful of the impact that you have on those around you, you are probably not treating those closest to you in a way they deserve, either.

I cannot bear it when I go into a shop or restaurant and I see a customer ignore the assistant, or bark orders at them. It is rude and demonstrates such arrogance that it’s made me intervene and apologise on their behalf on many occasions.

I believe in practising kindness. This philosophy means I always consider the impact that my actions can have on others, and even if someone fails to demonstrate kindness towards me, I refuse to let that alter my behaviour. Learning to live with a sense of gratitude and thanks won’t just make you nice to be around, it will make you a better human, a more loving partner and an individual who is thought of positively.

It has been proven again and again that showing gratitude to a partner is essential to a relationship that can go the distance. Just a “thanks for the cuppa” here, or a “this dinner is delicious” there, makes a huge difference to how you feel about one another. So next time you’re in a rush, remember your Ps and Qs, because manners do matter.