WE LOVE EACH OTHER MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY – SWINGING IS JUST OUR FAVOURITE HOBBY ❜

swing away from home, so we booked into a local hotel.” But despite her enthusiasm, Terri suffered last-minute nerves. She says, “I was worried that Lee wouldn’t fancy me after having sex with another woman. I thought he might prefer her body. But as soon as she walked into the hotel bar and we started chatting, my fears melted away. It felt like we’d known each other for years.

PASSIONATE

“I was very attracted to her. When we got to the bedroom, we started kissing and it escalated from there. At first it was me and the woman while Lee watched, then he joined in and had sex with both of us.

“I thought I might get jealous, but in fact I’d never fancied him more! We all had a brilliant time and when Lee and I got home that evening, we talked about it for hours. He admitted that it initially felt weird seeing me with a woman, but that he’d been really turned on.

“We ended up having the most passionate sex that night – being with another person made us enjoy each other more. It made our bond stronger.”

Now the couple are regulars on the swinging scene and have a single bisexual woman – known as a “Unicorn” – who they meet up with every month, as well as other couples they meet through the site and at swingers’ parties.

Terri says, “We have regular sex with about six different couples. The men don’t touch each other – Lee and I have sex with the woman and I have sex with the men. We all discuss our boundaries beforehand and Lee and I have a strict rule where we don’t kiss the opposite sex, but I can kiss other women. Drink and drugs are an absolute no and condoms and regular STI checks are a must.

“We also have a code word, just in case things go wrong. So far, nothing disastrous has happened, but we’ve met men who couldn’t perform or backed out at the last minute. It’s never a big deal. We just chat with them and watch TV instead. The most important rule is that when it comes to sex, Lee and I do everything together. We never meet anyone on our own and we always message as a couple.”

NO SHAME

And, since getting married, the couple say their popularity on the swinging scene has also improved.

Terri say, “Swingers find us even more appealing now we’re married, as they know we’re confident in our relationship. It means our sex life is better than ever!”

Amazingly, the pair say most of their family and friends are supportive of their decision to swing.

Terri says, “My parents and family know and say it’s our decision. Our children are too young to understand, but if they start asking questions when they get older, we’ll be honest.

“Lee is seen as a bit of a legend among his friends, but I’ve been dumped by a few mates because they think it’s disgusting.

“But we’re just very sexual people and swinging is normal to us. We’ve got no shame and shouldn’t have to hide who we really are.

“Lee and I love and trust each other more than words can say – swinging is just our favourite hobby and we hope to pursue it forever.”