‘You need to be cautious – you parted for a reason’

Relationship expert and Celebs Go Dating star Anna Williamson says that she doesn’t believe a reunion with your ex can last long-term.

Anna, 39, says, “A romance with an ex is to be entered into with major caution. You made the decision to separate for a reason – there has been an issue that can’t be resolved and you’ve chosen to part ways. So, unless those issues are talked through and confronted, they will likely resurface. You might just end up going through the same heartache.

“In my own experience, I’ve only once fleetingly entertained getting back with an ex – but it was because I got caught up and confused momentarily. I was nostalgic, after looking at the relationship through rose-tinted glasses. But once you remember the initial cause of the split, you realise that the past should be left exactly there, and that moving forwards is the priority.

“It’s surprising that the pair stayed in touch all these years. Break-ups are painful and emotional – especially if they are serious, as Ben and Jen were. In these cases, staying friends is usually problematic – it’s healthier, less painful and easier to move on if you cut contact. You broke up for a reason, and staying in touch can hinder you from moving on.

“I think you need to be extremely wary when rekindling a relationship with an ex. While I individually love Ben and Jen – and I was a fan of Bennifer back in the day – I’m not hopeful. I won’t be buying my hat just yet!”