All the way with… a male escort

Some women are prepared to pay big money for great sex, as Madison James found out

I was working in sales and marketing when I started to notice that many of the women I dated would thank me after sex. This made me realise that, as a man who was good at pleasing women,

I was somewhat of an anomaly. I’ve always been open about sex, so while some people still stigmatise selling sexual services, I saw escorting as a way to earn more money while using my talents and doing something I really enjoyed.

While I’m technically an escort, because people pay to spend time with me, I consider myself more of a sexual development companion. I help people explore their sexuality in the longterm, and this can sometimes be an emotional process too. Ultimately, though, it’s my goal to give my clients the best sex ever.

Most of the women I see are in their late forties and early fifties. They tend to be intelligent, professional and wealthy. As money isn’t an issue for them, they usually want to escape their highpowered, stressful jobs for an evening while exploring their sexuality.

I vet each client first and only work with those that turn me on – I need to be physically attracted to them in order to give them the best experience. Sometimes a client’s backstory is too complicated and I feel I’m not best equipped to help. If I don’t feel I’m suitable for someone, I’ll politely let her know. There can be a million tell-tale signs: like if they try to haggle over rates or ask me to prove how big my dick is.

My standard rate is £200 an hour, but most of my bookings are overnight and typically between

12 and 24 hours. Some clients will book me for a weekend, or even a whole week. What we do will often consist of nice hotels, bars, restaurants, long drives in the countryside and shopping trips to Selfridges. We might spend quiet evenings around the fireplace, with me massaging them or us trying out some BDSM.

After one memorable session, my client and I ordered room service, then went for a latenight drive through central London, racing down Park Lane. When we returned to the hotel, she got into bed and I laid between her legs, slowly licking her clit until she was close to orgasm. Then she pulled me inside her. When we were done, I massaged her and we fell asleep together.

It might surprise you to hear that in my personal life, I could take or leave sex. I’m single at the moment and probably only have it once a week as my job requires a lot of emotional and physical energy. I’m also a single parent, and my 20-year-old daughter was one of the first people I told when I started escorting nearly five years ago. She thinks it’s cool, but I spare her the details.

Over the years, I’ve learned that my clients are paying for a really good orgasm. Some haven’t had one for over a year and you can see the frustration in their faces. During the time we spend together, their outlook, confidence and how they move are all transformed.

“It’s my goal to give the best sex ever”