Adventure’s what life’s about... but I’m also a father
Television adventurer Steve Backshall talks to GABRIELLE FAGAN about how his children and the pandemic have shifted his priorities
STEVE BACKSHALL valiantly tries to make himself heard above the din of crying, screaming and laughter in the background, as he describes his adventures exploring some of the world’s most remote destinations.
The adventurer and presenter – best known for the popular BBC series, Deadly 60 – is currently at home navigating the tricky waters of parenting, with two-year-old son, Logan, and five-month-old twins, Kit and Willow.
“I must admit, the lack of sleep is grinding away at me and I feel like I’ve aged 10 years in the last couple of months, but I know this is special time I’ll never get again and I’ll always remember,” he says, beaming with pride as he talks about family life with his wife, Olympic rowing champion Helen Glover.
The award-winning wildlife presenter is more accustomed to the perils of swimming with snakes and crocodiles, climbing mountains and plunging down waterfalls for a host of prestigious shows, including Undiscovered Worlds With Steve Backshall. He’s happily regarding this year’s enforced domesticity as a blessing.
“I went away on an expedition only two weeks after Logan was born,” recalls Steve, 47. “So even though it’s pretty hideous getting up to one of the twins at 2am, it’s wonderful being able to wake up with them every morning and put them to bed at night, I pretty much missed all that time with Logan.
“Helping Logan enjoy nature and seeing him find it as exciting and entrancing as I did as a kid is kind of beautiful and life-affirming,” he adds. “If I could bottle this time, I would.”
Peace and quiet may be in short supply at his Berkshire home these days, but Steve has been busy outdoors collecting rather more gentle sounds – the different hums, echoes and buzzes that can be heard in the country surroundings of Yeo Valley, the family-owned organic farm and dairy company.
The aim of the 15-minute soundscape, called ‘The Sound of Yeo Valley’, is to raise awareness of biodiversity and the importance of a thriving environment.
It’s accompanied by tips on how to create a bug hotel, bird box, wild garden and a pond from a washing-up bowl.
Steve enthuses: “It was a revelation to me and I hope it will help open people’s ears to what’s around them, and encourage people to explore the nature on their doorstep.
“I’m planning to shut my eyes for 10 minutes every day, just to immerse myself in those sounds – it’s got to be the purest form of meditation.”
And Steve could understandably use a an extra dose of calm right now, as he believes the pandemic threatens the future of his career.
“While I’m so grateful for time to enjoy parenting, there’s also been panic about how on earth I’m going to pay the mortgage,” admits the explorer, who, with a TV crew, recently spent a year taking part in 10 expeditions to unexplored places throughout the world.
“There’s a worry about whether a job like mine will just completely disappear in the future and my sort of programmes will never come back.
“My work has been long trips to parts of the world where there’s little infrastructure and probably isn’t even a hospital,” he explains.
“So there’s a worry on two fronts – not only ensuring the health and safety of myself and the crew, but the fear of potentially introducing Covid-19 into remote areas and putting vulnerable people’s lives in peril.”
Resolutely positive, he adds: “I’m very lucky I’ve had 20 years in this job, but I’ve always known it could disappear tomorrow.
“If my current job goes, I’ll find another.”
Steve’s commitment to nature is unwavering, but his attitude to danger has changed now he’s a father.
“Just after Logan was born, I was struck by the absolute realisation that fatherhood was what I was put on the planet for and I didn’t want to miss a second of him,” he recalls.
“Yet I was away from him and miles from civilisation in Suriname (South America). Normally I’m Mr Positive, but I was positively miserable and grumpy on that trip.”
Nearly drowning on the first-ever descent of a white-water river in
Bhutan in the Himalayas further reshaped his priorities.
“I’ve had a few near misses but this was awful. I was under water for nearly five minutes and realised I may never see my little boy again.”
Eventually, he hopes to go exploring with the whole family – starting with UK expeditions – and any professional solo trips abroad will be halved from six weeks to three.
“That doesn’t mean I’ll stop pushing myself to feel my limits – living life on the edge and experiencing adventure is what life’s about... but I’m taking into account my responsibilities as a father.”
While his body’s taken a battering over the years – he had surgery on his shoulder after the kayaking accident and has clocked two broken vertebrae and multiple operations on a shattered ankle – his wellbeing is nourished by his relationship with nature.
“I keep fit by kayaking, cycling and swimming but mentally I keep myself healthy by connecting with nature and being outdoors,” he says.
“I think it’s a panacea for so many ills that we haven’t used enough.
“We should be shouting this from the treetops,” he declares.
Steve Backshall has teamed up with Yeo Valley to create a biodiversity and wildlife soundscape, created to highlight the importance of nature and the role organic farms play. Search Spotify for ‘The Sound of Yeo Valley’.