Mullally finds calm after the storm
FORMER LEEDS STAR’S SALVATION IN NATURE
ANTHONY MULLALLY thought he would be on top of the world when he helped Leeds Rhinos become Super League champions four years ago.
Instead, he was overwhelmed by a feeling of “what now?”. He knew he needed to reassess what made him happy.
Now Mullally, 29, is on the crest of a wave after shunning rugby league glory.
First he turned to meditation and, when lockdown happened last year, he decided it was time for drastic action – as far away from a rugby pitch as it could be.
He bought a camper van, moved to Cornwall and immersed himself in nature, spending his time surfing and hiking.
It had such a resounding effect that Mullally turned his back on Super League and set up men’s nature retreats and workshops instead.
He said: “All I’d wanted was to win a Grand Final but when I did, I thought, ‘What now?’. I realised that happiness has to come from within. You do not need status.”
When the pandemic struck last year he was playing for Toronto, who pulled out of Super League and were refused permission to rejoin. But the 6ft 5in forward, who had offers from other topflight clubs, knew early in lockdown that his life had changed for ever.
“I need to be really motivated and emotional to get the best out of me and the thought of going back full-time wasn’t doing it for me,” said Mullally.
He joined AS Carcassonne in France on a part-time basis, giving him time to develop his retreats.
He said: “I know it is not for everyone and some will laugh, but if men are feeling isolated and struggling to find a purpose, then I can offer a space to come and be vulnerable and express their feelings.
“As a man, you have expectations – like being the provider and showing strength, not weakness. But I want to break down some of that stigma.
“When you’re in nature, you can start to reassess. Surfing, hiking and nature is how I am trying to reach men. It’s adventure but if they want to open up in discussions, then great.”
Mullally, who became known as the Vegan Warrior after switching his diet at Leeds, said: “Growing up, I thought to be a man you had to be dominant and strong.
“But it got me into trouble when I was younger. I got community service for fighting.
“I can see now that you do not have to be a tough guy to be masculine. Integrity and compassion is a big part of it.”
● Mullally’s next retreat will be in Cornwall in July, with more planned. Further details at www.anthonymullally.com