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AND FINALLY Here’s to a truly bionic woman . . .

- BeL answers readers’ questions on emotional and relationsh­ip problems each week. Write to Bel Mooney, Daily Mail, 2 Derry Street, London W8 5tt, or email bel.mooney@dailymail.co.uk. A pseudonym will be used if you wish. Bel reads all letters but regrets s

MANY people responded to last week’s column on exercise advising ‘use it or lose it’ and I’m grateful for warm fellow feeling and encouragem­ent.

My favourite letter came from Linda — full of optimism about body and soul, love and life.

‘My first husband had a drink problem, but is a good man and we remain friends,’ she wrote.

‘My second was tall, handsome, charming, totally swept me off my feet — and, a few years after we married, repeated that scenario with various other ladies. He walked out and moved to Spain, leaving me and his 11-year-old daughter, whom he professed to idolise.’

Broken-hearted Linda thought, ‘never again’, took up fell-walking, and became friends with a lovely man called Graham.

‘After eight years we married and I am forever grateful. We were both 67 and have been married three years. Hope, perhaps, for others who write to you experienci­ng abandonmen­t and feeling there’s no light at the end of the tunnel.

‘It may seem like the darkness is too deep to ever come out the other side, but beyond it the light is always there. We just need to find the way.’

Linda’s email didn’t stop there. Her hip replacemen­t was five months before mine. She assures me patience is essential to give the body time to heal itself.

‘I recognise I will never have the suppleness and lithe limbs of my youth, but ten months on I am now up in the hills and walking seven to eight miles with no discomfort or after-effects.

‘I am a volunteer complement­ary therapist with the local Hospice at Home organisati­on, regularly look after my two energetic grandchild­ren and love digging in our garden.

‘I shall be celebratin­g my 70th at the end of September and am looking forward to my twilight years. I may not experience the mind-blowing euphoria and intoxicati­on of my girlhood, but I look forward to twinkling on cloud nine in my own personal seventh heaven.’

Now, that’s a bionic woman! Thank you, Linda — so much.

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