Carer? A holiday will help you both
EVERYONE needs a break, yet 90 per cent of disabled people and carers are unable to have a proper holiday away, a new survey reveals. This is despite a majority saying that having a break is essential to sustain a good, caring relationship. The study shows that much more needs to be done to support unpaid family carers — including greater access to respite holidays, where they can socialise and enjoy activities. Graham and Lesley had just restarted a relationship when Graham had a stroke, which had a huge impact on their family. Lesley now provides round-theclock care for Graham every day. ‘I have looked after him for four years’, says Lesley. ‘Things get on top of me and I can feel isolated.’ Lesley is not alone in feeling this way. Four out of ten carers say they feel lonely, while six out of ten say they put the health of their loved one ahead of their own. On a respite holiday, carers can accompany those they care for, or else take a break themselves. Lesley and Graham recently enjoyed a respite holiday together. ‘It was a very relaxing week for us both,’ Lesley says. ‘Graham really enjoyed choosing where to go, as well as the activities and socialising. ‘He made friends and loved the carers and volunteers who looked after him. I don’t know what we would do if respite holidays didn’t exist. It was a well-needed break for myself and a great, positive experience for Graham.’