Daily Mail

What hope for girls with role models like these?

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AFeW months ago, the surgically enhanced Kim Kardashian was on the cover of Vogue India with the headline: ‘Why are 160 million people obsessed with her?’

Lips, bum, breasts — there’s hardly a part of her body that hasn’t been altered to transform her into a woman who makes Jessica Rabbit look dowdy.

Meanwhile, in Britain this week, another body image icon appeared on the cover of Cosmopolit­an, a style bible for countless young women.

She is 5ft 5in, 20st Tess Holliday, a self-proclaimed champion for ‘body confidence’ in plus- size women. ‘If I saw a body like mine on this magazine when I was young,’ she says, ‘it would have changed my life.’

No wonder that with role models ranging from tiny-waisted Kim to bountiful Tess, young girls who seek inspiratio­n and solace from fashion magazines are hopelessly confused — and, it seems, increasing­ly unhappy.

So confused that a survey this week claimed one in four teenage girls in Britain now self-harms. Why? Because they worry about their appearance and conforming to body stereotype­s.

But how can they have a realistic expectatio­n of how their own bodies should look when they are presented with such physical extremes in magazines and on social media? That’s not to mention the armies of stick-thin models who parade across the fashion pages like dead-eyed gazelles.

The perils of aping any of these looks should be all too plain — but when you are a woman trying to be accepted in a shallow world, it’s all too easy to be blinded by insecurity.

Mother of three Leah Cambridge, 29, was so desperate for a perfect postbaby body that she went to Turkey for a Kim Kardashian special, a ‘bum lift’. But she died. How does her children’s father explain to them that Mummy died because she wanted to be perfect — when she always was in their eyes?

The perils of anorexia are welldocume­nted. For me, most worrying is the promotion of Cosmo’s new cover girl. Yes, Tess has an exquisite face. But is she really a healthy role model for teenage girls? Being fat is no fun.

The celebratio­n of her curves sends out a message: that obesity can be glamorous. Yes, a big girl can look lovely. But in a world where teenagers are fascinated by the endless images pouting on social media, we’ve lost sight of what a healthy teen body looks like.

It’s not the product of a plastic surgeon’s knife, and it’s also not a 20st frame. There is a happy medium that involves running around outdoors from a young age, sport after school, watching what you eat and self-control.

It’s not rocket science, but it might help girls to learn to love themselves.

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