The one lesson I’ve learned from life

KnoWn as ‘the forces’ sweetheart’ during World War II, Dame Vera Lynn, 101, is best known for songs such as We’ll Meet Again and The White Cliffs of Dover. She lives in East Sussex and has a daughter, Virginia, from her marriage to late husband Harry.

FOR NO REGRETS STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF

PeoPle often ask me for the secret to success. Usually, they mean success in the music industry, but I think the answer applies to most things in life: always persevere and never give up.

I’ve had the good fortune of having a long and varied career. looking back, some might think things have been plain sailing but, as with anything, there have been both highs and lows.

In so many ways, World War II was one of the lowest lows imaginable, yet some of my most treasured memories come from that time. communities came together, people displayed a wonderful generosity of spirit and I saw the bravery of our boys on the front line as they fought for our freedom. everyone at home and abroad learned the virtue of persistence — it was crucial for victory!

I remember trying to make my way to shows during the war when the air raid siren would sound. I’d wear my helmet, but keep going in my little austin 10. as the saying goes, the show must go on. after all, it didn’t matter where I was if one of the bombs had my name on it.

It’s about being able to look back and feel satisfied with what you’ve achieved. The only way to not have regrets is by staying true to yourself. That’s why I chose what I wanted to sing and the projects I wanted to pursue. I’ve always read the lyrics for songs and if I didn’t connect with them, I’d find another.

No one told me what I should or could do, so I was responsible for my actions. In showbiz, persisting didn’t just mean singing; it also meant keeping integrity.

Now, I am reminded of the importance of perseverance regularly. I have a children’s charity in cuckfield, West sussex, which helps young children affected by cerebral palsy and associated disorders. The perseverance these young people display every day is inspirational.

seeing a severely disabled five-yearold smile, or his parents laugh, reminds me that giving up isn’t worth it — persistence can be so rewarding.

KEEP Smiling Through: My Wartime Story by Dame Vera Lynn (Penguin, £7.99)