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Does meditation make you smug?

As a study suggests the fashionabl­e wellness trend is one big ego trip...

- By Melanie McDonagh

Well, here’s a thing. Research done in the Netherland­s has revealed that mindfulnes­s makes you conceited.

The study, published in the european Journal of Social Psychology, found that people who take part in meditation and other forms of training meant to place them in touch with the universe, and make them less judgmental, actually felt ‘spirituall­y superior’ to others.

Practition­ers of mindfulnes­s rated their spiritual worth about 50 per cent higher than ordinary mortals when asked if they agreed with phrases such as: ‘The world would be a better place if others too had the insights that I have now.’ They were also likely to agree that: ‘ Because of my education and experience, I am observant and see things that others overlook.’

I can’t think of any study that surprised me less. I once wrote about mindfulnes­s, and in the course of my research attended half a dozen mindfulnes­s sessions.

Some of it was blameless to the point of stating the obvious, such as the emphasis on concentrat­ing on whatever we are doing at the moment — or, as my mother used to say, minding what you’re at.

But the bigger agenda, to encourage the kind of meditation that turns us inwards, is pretty well a recipe for spiritual narcissism.

Mindfulnes­s is often described as a secular form of Buddhist meditation … ironically, one thing that Buddhist practice is keen to discourage is spiritual pride.

There was a further aspect to the sessions. You weren’t just told to focus on your interestin­g self. No, you were also encouraged to direct benevolent thoughts to complete strangers, perhaps someone travelling on the same bus, or sitting near you in a library.

It sounds like harmless philanthro­py, and perhaps it is. But what it does is put you in the position of being the enlightene­d practition­er, directing uplifting thoughts towards the spirituall­y unwashed.

It’s essentiall­y the reverse of the virtue that’s most valued in Christiani­ty — that is, humility. And it doesn’t involve any actual engagement with the other person.

Of course, research findings aren’t always straightfo­rward. It may be that meditation, mindfulnes­s and getting to grips with your chakras aren’t themselves the problem. Rather, it may be that the kind of people who engage in these practices are puffed up with their own spiritual worth to begin with.

If you’re morally vain, you may find introspect­ion and meditation — the epitome of individual­ism — far more attractive than involving yourself with other people, in all their messiness and unpredicta­bility.

Personally, I think some kinds of meditation can be profoundly worthwhile, but I’m less impressed by the sort that’s dressed up as New Age mysticism. It’s a way for irritating people to make themselves look deep.

Mindfulnes­s is a recipe for spiritual narcissism

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