Conversation stalled so she Googled what we could talk about!

DATING PAST

In my late 20s, I was in a three-year relationship in which we saw each other only at weekends. She wanted to move in, but I’m very independent and prefer my space and freedom. While we’re still friendly, I’m more open to taking that next step with someone new. That’s why I’ve been going on speed and virtual dates.

PRE-DATE NERVES?

no, I’m on the radio for my job so I’m used to interviewing bands and singers. I tried to be myself and not go into interview mode. I picked out one of my snazzy shirts to wear — I’ve got a colourful collection.

FIRST IMPRESSIONS?

I ThoughT Karis looked lovely with a nice smile. Physically it’s hard to tell what she looks like, but I did compliment her on her dress. There was a bit of silence to begin with — we were each waiting for the other to get the ball rolling.

EASY TO TALK TO?

IT WaS unusual and varied. I don’t think Karis is into music, so that line of chat didn’t go far. We’re both foodies, which I took as a good sign, but there were moments when it was a bit weird, with pauses in the flow of our chat.

While I did try to get a rhythm going, I found I was running out of things to ask Karis, so I suggested doing a quiz. She looked surprised, but did moderately well.

I also told her one of my jokes, I know if you can make a woman laugh it’s a good thing. It went: ‘my friend writes about sewing machines. he’s a Singer songwriter — or so it seams.’ She got it straight away!

EMBARRASSING MOMENTS?

When the conversation dried up, Karis googled other topics. I wasn’t offended and saw the funny side.

DID SPARKS FLY?

If I’m honest, no. I don’t think Karis is on my wavelength.

WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET IN PERSON?

acTually yes, because you can’t get a feel for someone over Zoom.

WHAT DO YOU THINK SHE THOUGHT OF YOU?

I’m noT the most typical of guys, I am unique and quirky. In my line of work you do need to have a personality and mine does shine through. But I think she could tell that just from the shirt I wore.

WOULD YOUR FAMILY LIKE HER?

yeS, Karis is like the girl next door. She works hard, is down to earth and doesn’t have a bad bone in her body.