‘ He wanted my number ... but I’m not into men who wear jewellery ’

DATING PAST?

I’ve never had a proper long-term relationship. My friends laugh at me because I’m so picky. I’ve been on dates and I know what I want, but many of the relationships I see around me put me off.

I want to meet a man who’s not driven by one thing. I’ve even been insulted and called ugly because I’ve rejected someone, so I’m careful about the kind of man I date.

PRE-DATE NERVES?

I wasn’t nervous, other than wondering whether or not he was going to turn up. I have quite a big personality and wore a bright orange jumpsuit that I’ve always liked. I felt confident and comfortable.

FIRST IMPRESSIONS?

luckIly, hayden was there before

me. on first impression, I thought he was all right-looking, with a lovely smile. I’m not really into men wearing big chains and jewellery, which he was. I gave him a hug — but I knew there wasn’t going to be any romance.

EASY TO TALK TO?

he’s quieter than me and I probably talked too much. I was cracking jokes and being loud and I know I can often intimidate people. But that’s who I am. I like to get straight to the point.

I asked him questions about his family and his hobbies. I don’t feel we have much in common, although we both come from large families of five siblings so we exchanged some stories about that. he tended to ask me the same questions back — but I need someone who will challenge me, with energy to match mine.

EMBARRASSING MOMENTS?

not really.

DID SPARKS FLY?

there was no flirting from either of us. he’s a lovely, chilled man, but I knew we weren’t attracted to each other — we friend-zoned each other. I usually prefer older men who are more established and confident.

SEE HIM AGAIN?

when we left the restaurant he asked for my number. I’m not sure if he was just being polite. still, if we happened to bump into each other I would definitely speak to him, as I enjoyed his company.

WHAT DO YOU THINK HE THOUGHT OF YOU?

I suspect it was purely platonic. he told me I was good company, even if there wasn’t any chemistry.

WOULD YOUR FAMILY LIKE HIM?

yes, but they’d know he wouldn’t be for me romantically. I need someone who is louder and more confident.