THORMAN: MY AGONY

Former Huddersfield player and coach reveals the personal torment that has left him out of the game with his life turned upside-down

was basically because my ex was determined to ruin me and she knew my work was the glue to my life and my main passion and drive.

“Our toxic relationship was so draining and I kept everything to myself for over a year.

“There were a lot of allegations made against me, including two assault charges (all of which were unfounded and I was found not guilty on all charges).

“Because of these claims the RFL had to do their own investigation and a risk assessment with me – this is still ongoing (it feels like it’s been going on an eternity).

“Until this has been completed, I am unable to work in rugby league.

“This sport is all that I have known and want nothing more than to work in it again.

“The RFL haven’t shown any urgency in my case and I have to say I have been disappointed with how they have handled it.”

Thorman says his mental health has been badly affected and urged anybody who is struggling to seek help.

He added: “I haven’t seen my son Noli for over eight months now and I haven’t seen my daughter Georgia since last summer when she visited from America. I miss them both immensely. This has affected my mental health, my loved ones and my family and I don’t want it to any more.

“I suppose what I’m saying is that if you are struggling in life you really need to take charge of your own actions, you need to be accountable because no one else will do it for you – I AM GOING TO DO THAT AS OF RIGHT NOW. No more excuses or feeling sorry for myself.” Geordie Thorman was a coach for six years at Huddersfield Giants, including a successful spell in charge last year following the sacking of Rick Stone.

He also played in Super League for London Broncos and Hull FC and had a brief spell in the NRL with Parramatta Eels in 2004.

The RFL has issued a statement which reads: “This is clearly a sensitive issue, much of which must remain confidential.

“The RFL has undertaken a risk assessment, in liaison with the relevant statutory authorities, since the conclusion of the police investigation into the events to which Chris has referred, which led to his temporary suspension from certain roles in the game.

“Chris is fully aware of the status of that investigation and what is necessary before it can be completed.”