I miss my friends & my morning walk around my neighbourhood
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I’m a diabetic,
I’ve come out of prostate cancer and I’m being treated for other issues like high blood pressure.
My independence is really important to me. I didn’t think the lockdown would last this long – I thought it would be two weeks at the most. But we’re getting on OK. I have a drone and there’s a garden where I can fly it. And we have a treadmill where I do 10 or 15 minutes’ morning exercise.
I usually do a big morning walk in my neighbourhood, so I’m missing that. In all the time I’ve been here I’ve been out once. I miss my friends. A couple passed away but I couldn’t go to their funerals. And I’m missing the rest of the family.
Initially I was being shielded for my age, not my ethnicity. But when you see the statistics about BAME people I realise it’s for both. I’m 82 and I know full well I’m not here forever. But I’m trying to make sure this virus doesn’t take me.
When I knew lockdown was imminent I talked to family members and we made the decision it would be better if he stayed here. I don’t know if he’d have managed on his own. I’d have been constantly worried. For Dad it’s hard. It’s not just about eating, it’s about getting on a bus, going to get things for a meal. A conversation with the people in the shop. It’s those simple things. But he can’t go out. What’s alarming is the lack of information. We don’t know why different sections of the community are more at risk. These figures are shining a light on the racism and inequalities that exist in this country. Disparities in health, housing, education and employment.
We started a week before official isolation because of the limits of the care home to public access. Also, we’re in the