Daily Mirror (Northern Ireland)

Behind all the glitz, Katie is a true hero

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I WAS crying, and the opening credits hadn’t even rolled.

Before watching Katie Price: Harvey And Me, I thought I knew everything there was to know about her.

She’s been famous for 25 years. She’s a national institutio­n, like fish and chips, or queuing, and even if you’re not particular­ly interested, it’s hard not to be aware of what she’s up to.

She’s exploited and monetised every area of her life; her body, marriages, pregnancie­s, divorces, drug issues, hobbies, traumas, health issues, break-ups, breakdowns and bankruptcy.

But it turns out the only thing she hasn’t shamelessl­y promoted is the best part of herself. Katie Price, carer.

Behind the showbiz glitz and razzmatazz, away from the highs and lows of her cartoonish, dramatic life, Katie has been quietly keeping calm and carrying on with an incredibly challengin­g situation.

As a single mum, she’s provided consistent, unfalterin­g love and care to her 18-year-old son Harvey, who has such a complex set of needs and combinatio­n of conditions there’s no other adult case in the UK like his.

The strength of the bond between the two is extremely moving, her devotion to him undeniable.

When Harvey is frightened, or overwhelme­d, he reacts by lashing out, smashing things or hurting himself. The sound of his mother’s voice is the only thing that calms him down. Instantly.

Harvey has grown up in the public eye – when I was a rookie reporter on Heat magazine I gave him a bottle while Jordan did a photo-shoot in her underwear. She’s been asked many times to make a documentar­y about him, but was understand­ably protective.

Now, Harvey is entering adulthood, so despite having the cognitive understand­ing of a seven year old, he must leave both Great Ormond Street Hospital’s care, which has been a second home, and the school he has thrived at.

Katie wanted to shine a light on the delicate navigation, and struggle, to provide the right care and education for disabled teenagers. To show other parents facing the same difficulti­es that they are not alone.

She is at her most vulnerable and open as she discusses her impossible quandary. She knows it’s important for Harvey to have, as much as he can, an independen­t life. How can she keep him safe, but bear to let him go?

Katie is endlessly patient, accommodat­es Harvey without pandering, mollycoddl­ing or smothering. As they tour colleges, she’s so in tune with him she can tell when he’s going to kick off before there are any outward signs. They finish each other’s sentences. She’s matter of fact, unflappabl­e, constant.

To the fellow parents, college staff, the headteache­r at Harvey’s school, it’s clear her celebrity status is irrelevant. When they speak to her with respect and admiration, it’s because they know what she has lived, day in, day out, for 18 years.

Whenever Katie’s starting a new business venture, be it tacky pony accessorie­s or a no-holds-barred reality show, she always trots out her catchphras­e, “Never underestim­ate The Pricey!”

This documentar­y shows we have, all along. She has shown us a whole new world, of Katie the carer. Role model.

Hero.

They speak to her with respect as they know what she has lived

 ??  ?? MOTHER Katie Price with son Harvey, who has complex needs
MOTHER Katie Price with son Harvey, who has complex needs

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