What your answers reveal and ways to help you reconnect

MOSTLY As

Your sex life and your relationship sound good but maybe not as satisfying as they could be.

A good first step to making things even more enjoyable is to acknowledge when you don’t feel you’re getting what you want. It’s better to start to think about what the underlying problem is.

Do you feel you’re not as emotionally close as you would like to be, or is there tension that’s undermining your connection?

MOSTLY Bs

It sounds as if your sex life is very satisfying and as a result you’re both feeling connected and happy.

You understand that good communication, showing each other lots of affection and addressing any tensions is the key to a happy sex life and keeping your relationship strong and healthy.

Keep putting in the effort and your relationship will continue to grow and reward you.

MOSTLY Cs

It sounds as if you are struggling to connect with your partner and to talk openly about sex and your relationship.

Perhaps trust issues are having a knock-on effect on your sex life.

Some people are happy not having much sex but if you or your partner are feeling dissatisfied, it’s worth taking steps to reconnect. Start by paying your partner a compliment or sending them a flirty text. If this is daunting and you feel there’s too big a distance between you, it might be worth contacting Relate, who can advise whether you would benefit from counselling and/or sex therapy. Visit www.relate.org.uk/sextherapy