I LUST AFTER BOYFRIEND’S HOT STEPDAD

Dear Coleen

My boyfriend and I are both 18 and have a really nice relationship. My problem is, his stepdad is only 32 – very much younger than his mum – and also really sexy and funny.

I can’t stop staring at him when I’m over at their house and I find myself thinking about him even when I’m not there.

What should I do? I really do love my boyfriend and, actually, my boyfriend is way more attractive physically than his stepdad. Help!

Coleen says

I think you know what to do – a whole lot of nothing when it comes to your boyfriend’s stepdad. It sounds like you’ve got a crush on him and I’m sure he’s flattered that a younger woman is hanging on his every word, but please don’t try to turn this into anything more.

There are lines you don’t cross in relationships and cheating with a partner’s parents or step-parents is certainly one of them.

The chances are you’ll lose interest in him at some point but, in the meantime, if you’re worried you (or he) might act on these feelings, then don’t go over there.

Meet your boyfriend at your place, or at a bar or café. You don’t have to be in this man’s company.

Focus on building the relationship with your boyfriend away from his family home and try to put this man out of your mind.