DOES SESSION WITH ESCORT MEAN I’M GAY?

Dear Coleen

I’m a straight male, who recently fantasised about having sex with a man. The urges became so great that I looked online for a gay escort and booked him. He asked if I’d like his friend to join in, so I agreed.

On the day of the liaison I ended up having sex with both of them and it was a wonderful.

When it was over, they asked if I’d like to do it again, but this time without condoms and as I was so excited, I agreed and had penetrative sex without protection.

It was the most amazing feeling I’ve ever had and I want another session – does this mean I’m actually gay?

Coleen says It means you’re stupid, having sex without using a condom whether you’re gay or not.

I’m actually surprised the escort suggested it.

I think you’re certainly bisexual and it’s exciting for you to realise that you enjoy sex with other men, but please be sensible.

It is not OK to have unprotected sex with complete strangers. How many other guys are these escorts suggesting condom-free sex to?

You don’t mention that you have a partner, so you’re free to hook up with whoever you like, but please use condoms and get yourself checked for sexually transmitted diseases as soon as you can at your local GUM (genitourinary medicine) clinic.