EX OFFERS ME MONEY FOR SEX

Dear Coleen

I got in touch with an ex of mine recently who’s in a relationship with someone else. He keeps sleeping with me and I know it’s wrong.

He even tries to bribe me with money. I don’t know what to do, as it feels like he’s just using me for sex.

I feel like I’m falling back in love with him, but he has told me he wants to stay with the woman he’s with now. Please help.

Coleen says

Why are you letting him use you in this way? He clearly has no intention of making a commitment to you – he’s told you that himself. He’s just after sex to the point where he’s trying to pay his way into your bed.

Of course you know what to do. First of all never sleep with him again (the longer it carries on, the harder it’ll be for you to break away) and tell him you don’t want to see him any more.

And stick to it. Cut him off and move on, and keep telling yourself you deserve better than a man who treats you with absolutely no respect.