YOU SAY

Like the woman who wrote to you about wanting out of her marriage after just eight months (Dear Coleen, Jan 3), I realised I’d married in haste just a few weeks after walking down the aisle.

I was terrified of telling my parents, who’d spent a fortune on the wedding, but they turned out to be very supportive. Embarrassment over a failed marriage is nothing compared to enduring a lifetime with the wrong person. Jules, via email