MY ESTRANGED GIRL WANTS CASH

Dear Coleen that you should get the house and they will have seen all the finances. Your daughters are grown up and should be able to grasp how these things work. Hopefully, one day they will.

If you’re on speaking terms with your ex, it would be worth explaining to him how this situation is affecting you and ask him to help you fix it.

As an adult, he should be able to put aside his issues with you for the sake of his daughters and their relationship with you.

Don’t feel forced into selling your home to give your eldest money. Make a decision that’s right for you, and that’ll help you to move on. You can’t buy her love and respect.

If your decision is to sell and make a fresh start, that’s great, but don’t do it just to try to mend things with your daughter.