NO SEX SINCE ARRIVAL OF OUR BABY SON

Dear Coleen

I’m 28 and my wife is 25. We have a great relationship and a beautiful little boy. We met at work two years ago and I knew she was “the one”. We got married nine months later and she fell pregnant four months after that.

However, since we’ve had our son, her sex drive has disappeared and this is bringing me down.

Before, we would have sex at least three or four times a week, and would make plenty of effort with each other, but now that’s all gone, leaving me contemplating looking elsewhere.

I love her and hate the fact these thoughts are coming into my head, but whenever I raise it with her, she tells me she’s tired from looking after the baby, which is understandable.

But even when we arrange childcare in advance, she’d rather sit on her phone or iPad then have sex. It’s driving me crazy.