MY PARTNER HAS GONE OFF HAVING SEX

Dear Coleen

We used to have the most amazing sex life, but in the last month my partner just hasn’t wanted it at all. We have spoken about it and she just says she’s not sure why she’s feeling like this – she just has “no interest”.

How can I approach this with her again? I love her and I don’t want to lose her. I also don’t want to keep trying it on with her so she feels pressured – that’s happened to me before and it wasn’t nice.

I want her to know that I’m here for her and will do what I have to do to get us back on track. Any ideas on what could be the reason for losing her sex drive if it isn’t anything to do with me?