Coleen says

It’s only been a month, so I don’t think you should panic just yet, and you’re doing everything right by being supportive and not pressuring her by making it all about sex.

I think you should just tell her what you’ve told me – that you’re here for her whatever the reason is and maybe you can try and work it out together.

It could be hormonal, which is something she could ask her GP about, or it could be down to something external like stress at work. It’s normal for your libido to change according to circumstances.

It’s definitely worth making the effort to romance each other again without expecting it to end in sex. Rebuilding intimacy away from the bedroom and being reminded of what attracted you to each other in the first place can really help too.