Ask Dr Miriam

QMy six-year-old granddaughter has been diagnosed with leukaemia.

She’s the apple of my eye and I don’t quite know how to behave with her. Any suggestions?

AMy first piece of advice is to be as normal as possible and stop yourself from appearing worried and mentioning her illness – this passes anxiety to your granddaughter.

However, it’s good to tell her that the treatment will make her

better and encourage her to ask questions. Be ready to answer them by asking the doctor what you should tell her. Involve her in as many activities as you can. If you can keep her busy, her mind will remain positive. Help her to acquire new skills – reading, singing, drawing and solving puzzles. If she’s well enough, take her to play outdoors and you’ll both get some fresh air. And lastly, be affectionate – show your granddaughter you care.