Dear Coleen

ABOUT nine years ago, my partner’s parents came over to our house looking for him, as his brother had found a pair of jeans belonging to my partner in his girlfriend’s washing machine.

His brother claimed they’d been having sex behind our backs and threatened to kill my boyfriend, who denied everything.

He went into hiding but why if it wasn’t true?

I’d had my own doubts about the pair of them and he admitted kissing a girl on a night out, so we split up for a while.

However, because we have two daughters, I took him back.

Now I’m worrying that he’s cheating again after discovering he has a secret Facebook account and email address.

I was also in hospital recently and they discovered I had the HPV virus and another sexually transmitted infection, yet my partner still denies cheating.

I’m at my wits’ end. What should I do?