I love him but still prefer a cuddle to sex

dearcoleen@dailyrecord.co.uk would be there for you with someone else but because you’re relatively inexperienced when it comes to sex and relationships, you don’t recognise that.

I think you need be really honest with each other.

It’s all very well saying: “I won’t leave you” but there’s every likelihood that’s what would happen as you both sound so young.

It’s sad, but sometimes everything can be great about a relationship apart from one area where you’re not compatible.

Sex is a pretty major area, so you have to be on the same page if a relationship is going to last.

I don’t think you’re wrong for feeling the way you do but I don’t think you can blame him either for wanting a full relationship, including sex.

Cuddling and kissing is intimate but if you’re young and have a high sex drive, then it’s not enough. So don’t ignore it.

Maybe if you do talk honestly and want to make it work, then you could be more experimental in bed to find out what you like and what you don’t.

Perhaps you just need reassurance when it comes to sex and to work out what turns you on.