Dear Coleen

LONELY BUT I CAN’T ADMIT THAT I’M GAY

I’M A 51-year-old gay guy and life seems to be running away from me.

After seven years together, my partner decided to end our relationship and go off with his best friend.

That was more than two years ago and I still can’t find another guy to share my life with.

Unfortunately, due to our split I had to move in with my parents, as I can’t afford to live alone.

On top of this, I’m not “out” to anyone as this would be impossible both at home and work.

I’ve tried dating sites and lost a stone in weight, but still no luck.

I am a shy person. Any advice?