Signs from lost loved ones

HI LUKE, MY SON Brian took his own life aged 53 years. My husband Peter died three weeks after my son. He was 83 years old and lost his fight with vascular dementia. I hope they find peace together.

I miss them so much. Both their ashes were scattered at the Rest and Be Thankful in the Highlands.

Nan HI NAN, THANK-YOU for your letter. I connect with your loved ones in spirit, especially your husband. Although he had dementia, he still recognised you and had a smile on his face when you entered the room. For some reason, he continues to talk about the flowers – “You must tell her I know about the flowers, especially the red one”. He also talks about the significance of 1969. Your husband mentions that at the time of his passing, there was a smile on his face because your son was there to collect him, along with his mother – the name Mary was just said to me – and many other family members in spirit. There is a connection to the police force as he has just shown me a police uniform and the names David and Eric come up. Your loved ones surround you with purple light, which to me is a very spiritual healing colour. Your spirit family are around you and you do get signs from them. When you acknowledge the signs, they will get stronger, especially the smells you have been getting in random places. Your husband laughs with me as he talks about the amount of photos that are on the wall and table of spirit loved ones. He wasn’t one for having his photo taken.

He is eternally grateful for the care that he received at the end of his life. He talks of the long corridor that he was at the end of. He could hear you coming towards the room – always with food.

Brian was always smiling when he was here on Earth, making sure everyone else was OK. He has a very caring personality and laughs as he says you know he wasn’t good with money. Where you scattered the ashes is beautiful. You are surrounded by love from spirit.