Dear Coleen

IS MY AWFUL HUBBY SET TO CHEAT AGAIN?

I have been married 26 years, but I know of four affairs my husband had while he was a drummer in a band. I was devastated when I found out but, as stupid as it sounds I took him back because I loved him so much.

We were both married before and have children from those relationships, but he has driven a wedge between my kids and me, and has barred some of them from the house. He has no respect when he speaks to me. It’s dreadful.

I took on my grandson when he was born – he is now 27 – as he has Down’s syndrome and serious behavioural problems. I adore him and I know he adores me and cries when I get upset. I am so proud of him and what we’ve achieved.

My husband hasn’t played drums for 15 years, but recently started to play again and I’m now worrying.