Dear Coleen

I have been with this girl for a few months now and everything is fine with the relationship.

We get on really well and I do like her, even though it’s not been that long.

There’s just one issue, but it’s a big one – she has kids and I’m not sure if I can take that on.

My friends have all told me not to go there and that I’ll be making a huge mistake if I do.

I just don’t know what’s best – what do you think?